People come and people go
This month of Syawal is not too festive for me and my family as we had 2 people whom we loved passed away.
My grandma passed away on the 3rd day of Hari Raya at a very ripe old age, very close to 100 if not passing that age already. She died due to a bout of viral flu which she was just to weak to recover unlike other times that she had it before. My late grandma, who was my mum's mom, was well taken care of by her children who brought her to PJ to stay so that we could take care of her health. Staying in the kampung and all alone (my grandpa passed away before I was born) had much problems for us to keep track of her health because she was always busy upkeeping the kampung surroundings (she had a large land to take care of).
On Hari Raya eve, my mum told me to visit my grandma, as they have already anticipated that she won't be around much longer. I went to my aunty's house, coz thats where she stayed and saw her. She was very very weak from the viral flu which she caught a week ago, but was on the verge of recuperating. I was told that my late grandma refused to eat anything, only sipping liquids from time to time. She was extremely frail and was sitting down on the carpeted floor after spending days lying down. She looked at me with an adoring look. The kind of look that you know, would be the last. I knew then, that it may be the last time I see her alive. I was right. The funeral was on the 3rd day of Hari Raya itself and tahlil followed thru 3 days in a row and weekly now.
Then last Monday we had another great shock. My brother in law's father too had passed away in Jakarta in his sleep, most prolly due to heart attack. Colonel (R) Zain was a small and loud fellow. He had whittish silver hair and loves to play golf. Though he had a heart bypass onced, it never detered him from continuing his golf games with his buddies. He was in Jakarta to play around of golf with his buddies when he passed away. Since he passed away in Jakarta, the body had to be brought back to KL for burials and the arrangements were done by a relative who is staying in Jakarta. After the 'mandi and sembahyang jenazah' - prayers for the deceased had been done, the body was put in a coffin and boxed up to be sent to KL. The body arrived on Monday night at KLIA MASCargo at 2130hrs. My brother in law was hectic arranging for all the paperwork to be done and the procedures were a lot. I arrived with my family to receive the body at KLIA MASCargo and the procedures were like this.
1. Go to the main entrance gate of the cargo area. Leave your MyKard and get a pass to get thru the custom's complex. Each person entering the cargo complex needs to surrender their MyKard and get a pass. You then drive your car to the cargo complex. Go straight, take a right corner till you see a blinking amber traffic light and turn left into the underpass.
2. From there you will reach another security checkpoint to enter the cargo complex. Since we didn't have transponders to open the automatic gates, unlike the cargo lorry trailers, we had to stop at the checkpoint, get down, produce a valid driving license and you will be given a car pass. They will open the autogate for you and find your appropriate cargo hanger. One thing I noticed, anything short of driving a small lorry, you will feel very much dwarfed in there. The atmosphere was a systematic chaos. There were forklifts busy buzzing around lifting boxes of good in and out of trailers. There were huge 18 wheeler trailers everywhere, small cargo pullers pulling all the cargo stuff, smal vans, big vans, small lorries and huge trailers going everywhere with a crescendo of beeping sounds as the forklifts and lorries reversed and loads of flashing amber and red lights. It was a sight to behold at 2200hrs.
3. After making your way to the cargo complex where you need to be, and in my case it was Core 2 MASCargo complex (there are many many cargo companies there) we had to go up to Mezzanine floor to do the paperwork to release the body from the cargo complex. Documentation purposes needs at least 2 family members to produce documents to show that they are families of the deceased and to pay for the cargo charges. Onced that has been done, then you can collect the body at the cargo area. It was a very sad sight, to see someone you loved in a normal wooden box on a trailer pellet. It was the first for me to see such a sight that you are sent home, as a cargo in the cargo hold of a plane. Onced the box was identified, we opened it up since there was a coffin inside the box and to transport the coffin with the box wasn't that appropriate. Brought the coffin into the hearse and we said our doa (prayers) at the cargo area before bringing it out.
4. Onced the hearse is brought back out pass the 1st check point, where you took your pass, in which you need to return the pass back and retrieve your MyKard, another set of paperwork needs to be carried out and this is at the Custom's checkpoint to declare that you are bringing a body out of the cargo complex. By then my brother in law's younger sister who was outside the security area at the parking lot taking care of my nephew walked to the hearse, opened it and broke down into tears. She was the closest child to her late father.
5. Now that everything has been done, the deceased will be driven to Kelantan where he will be buried in his hometown. Before that is done, a stop at Sepang Police Station is needed to declare the death and that a death certificate be produced.
It was a long and tiring night for us as we arrived back home at 1am. This passed 2 years I am starting to see people in the family starting to go and that makes me feel distrubed. First was my brother in law's brother last year, who passed away due to heart attack. Then my uncle earlier this year due to complications, then my grandma and now this. How I wish someone can invent a device or drug that can prolong people's lives or come out with replacement parts for heart, lungs, liver and kidneys just like how we can change parts from a car like engine, radiator, injectors, carburrator, batteries and other things. I believe we are at the stage where we have the ability to produce synthetic parts for replacement purposes. Why can't cigarette companies dump in money to research and develop artifical replacement lungs so that people who smoke don't die of lung cancer or beer companies who rake in billions of dollars every year R&D on artifical replacement liver. Well whatever it is, those of us who are still alive and reading this, well take care of your health because you only have 1 body and 1 life. Hope you had a good read.




















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